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Co-Parenting Calendar App for Two Homes
Most family calendar apps are built around one household. For separated parents, blended families, or a child who genuinely lives across two homes, that's the wrong shape from the start.
The quick answer
A good co-parenting calendar app keeps two homes properly separate, not merged into one confusing view. In Petal Home:
- Belong to up to five households in total, and switch between them with a tap
- Joining a household someone else set up is free; creating a second household of your own needs your own Premium plan
- Each household keeps its own calendar, lists, reminders and meal plan, kept separate from the others
- A teenager with their own login can belong to both homes, with a different role in each; a younger child without a login is added to each home separately
- There's no dedicated custody or handover-schedule feature, but an alternating-weeks pattern can be set once with an every-2-weeks repeat, or a 7-on/7-off shift pattern
One household isn't always the right unit
A family calendar app usually assumes everyone in it lives under one roof, sharing one set of plans. Co-parenting doesn't work like that. There are two homes, two sets of plans, and a child (or several) who belongs to both, without either home needing to see the other's entire life in detail.
Belong to more than one household, and switch between them
Petal Home lets one person belong to up to five households in total and switch between them. Joining a household someone else has already set up is free; creating a second household of your own needs your own Premium plan, even if you're already covered by someone else's. Whichever side you're on, switching is a quick tap between homes, not a separate login or a different app.
Each home keeps its own everything
Every household you belong to runs completely on its own terms, its own calendar, its own lists, its own reminders, its own meal plan, exactly as if it were the only one. That means a work calendar or a new partner's plans in one home never has to appear in front of the other. There's no merged view across households, you switch between them, and each one stays separate from the others.
How a child fits into both homes
A person with their own login, a teenager, say, can be a member of both households at once, with a different role in each if that's useful. A younger child without their own login is simply added to each household separately, so each home can include them in its own plans without the child needing a separate account of their own.
What actually belongs on a co-parenting calendar
Whatever app a family uses, the same things tend to matter for a child moving between two homes:
- School dates, INSET days and after-school clubs
- Pickups and drop-offs
- Medical and dental appointments
- Holidays, trips and time away
- Birthdays and family events that affect which home is hosting
Petal Home doesn't try to turn any of that into a custody system, each household simply keeps the plans that are relevant to its own home.
Where this fits over Christmas, half term and the rest
The moments this actually gets used are the predictable ones: half term split down the middle, Christmas Day divided between two houses, a school holiday shared unevenly. In every case, the pattern's the same: each home plans its own share of the time, in its own calendar, without needing access to the other household's full calendar. More on that in our piece on planning October half term.
Petal Home lets each home run itself properly, kept separate from the other, and makes moving between them as easy as a tap.
Frequently asked questions
How many households can I belong to in Petal Home?
Up to five in total, and you can switch between them at any time. Joining a household someone else already set up is free; creating a second household of your own needs your own Premium plan, even if you're already covered by someone else's.
Is there a combined calendar across two households?
No, each household is kept separate: its own calendar, lists, reminders and meals. You switch between them rather than seeing them merged into one view.
Can a child be part of both parents' households?
A person with their own login, such as a teenager, can belong to both households at once, with a different role in each if needed. A younger child without a login is added to each household separately, so each home can include them in its plans without a separate account.
Does Petal Home have a custody or handover schedule feature?
Not as a dedicated feature. Each household keeps its own calendar, so a co-parenting pattern is managed by what's on each home's calendar rather than a built-in handover or custody tool. An alternating-weeks pattern can still be set once, either with an every-2-weeks repeat or a 7-on/7-off shift pattern.
What should a co-parenting calendar include?
The same things that matter for a child moving between two homes: school dates and clubs, pickups and drop-offs, medical appointments, holidays and birthdays, and anything else that affects which home needs to plan around them.
One calm place for the whole family
Petal Home is being built to help families keep meals, lists, calendars and reminders in one calm shared space. If that sounds useful for your household, you can join the waitlist and we'll let you know when it launches.
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